Face and your appearance can be changed, but your character does not. "Chemistry" between you both are fun, but do not rely solely on lust.
2. You must be clear also what you do not want.
By knowing what you would never tolerate from a partner is important. Make a list of "Do not like" and then select the 10 most important. If more than 10, it means you are too picky.
3. Live your life.
Once you know what you desire (and you do not desire) in a relationship, shift your focus to live. You will find that you begin to feel meet with people that match your criteria, and easily those who do not immediately shift.
4. Take a look at the bigger picture.
Do not try too hard, so sometimes you miss some important things that exist. If indeed you are good in concentrating on one thing, you try to retreat a bit and try to see the conditions. Make sure your life was fun and beautiful, do not be too serious in everything.
5. Out of the "nest" you.
Create opportunities to develop your social life, and meet new people. Try changing your routine, you never tried to invite friends to just meet? Try searching for ideas to make a small celebration and make yourself the center of attention!
6. Open your eyes and your behavior.
People who are "lucky" will create and maximize opportunities. Try talking with others at the time shopping and queuing at the cashier. Always ready with a "business card" with your contact information.
7. Always wanted to know.
Do not be satisfied simply with what is visible. Try asking, try to find what lies behind it all, and try to see the answer!
8. Try something new.
The best way to keep everything as it is, is not to try something different. Try to make a difference in your routine, so you'll stay alert. Try to always noticed about whatever happens. Stay open to all opportunities that exist, and use all the best!
9. Always prepare yourself to receive good fortune.
Note the negative messages from yourself, and replace them with all the positive thoughts, eg: "Ah .. I'm not beautiful, it was impossible to make a relationship," try to replace it with "Ah, there is no one passed my criteria, but I'll find it soon enough ". Always surround you with people who can become a good example.
10. Learn from experience (fate) bad.
Try to take steps to prevent the possibility that there are bad all over again, and let what is "bad" was passed. Do not be repeated again bad luck there, try to follow the existing positive elements.